Friday, September 26, 2014

Phallic Friday - asexuality

This was a fascinating read - an article about asexuality - you can find it here.

I'm a little lost for words after reading this.

Is it lust that would be gone if you're asexual? Or is it also that extra intimacy you feel when the person you're with is really into you, and you them? How do you unravel that? Does the extra intimacy come from the lust/sexual attraction, or does it come from a deep friendship/connection?

I don't know how I'd manage if I wasn't sexually attracted to people...although, if you'd never experienced it, would you miss it?

Lust/sexaul attraction can sometimes be an extra nuisance that infers with forming relationships, especially when it's not wanted by one party.

Does being asexual mean that you don't get 'turned on'? So erotic stories would be read just the same as any other story?

I'm still lost for words, with more questions than answers. Do you know any more about asexuality? I'd love to find out more.

This website looks like it might be good -

I'm off to learn :)

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