Friday, January 24, 2014

Phallic Friday - sex questions

Australia Day blog hop is here.

I read an article on the news website this week answering 5 sex questions. You can find it here.

The 5 questions were:
  • How often do 'regular' couples have sex?
  • How long should sex last?
  • How big is an average penis?
  • Does the g-spot really exist?
  • What do I do if my partner is experiencing sexual dysfunction?

An interesting mix of question.

Some of the answers would have to be, "how long is a piece of string?", as I was often told! There is no answer to some of these questions - and that's reflected in the answers given in the article (which is refreshing!). I guess it's why these questions are asked over and over and over again.

If you have sex 3 or 4 times a day, you want to know you're normal. If you have sex once a year, you want to know you're normal.

If sex lasts for 2 minutes, or 2 hours, you want to know you're normal.

If your/your partner's penis is 2 cm or 20 cm, you want to know you/they are normal.

Why do people want normality (although, I'm not going there today!)? Or are they just searching to see that they're 'doing it right'?

And this is where romance books are great. There is such a range of 'normals' given - erotic for the sexually active, sweet for the not so sexually active. So much 'normal' - oh, except maybe penis size... that's always on the larger size, and as a general rule, the hotter the story, the more humongous the penis!

Anyway, those are my random musings after reading this article.


  1. Yup. Penis size and simultaneous orgasms. Definitely not normal!

    1. And if not simultaneous he holds off til she comes. Not many men have waited for me!

      Cate xo